Category Archives: Fire Fighting

On Silence

It’s been a while. The reasons are many. One of the big ones is silence.

We struggle from time to time. Life, circumstances, what have you. Things aren’t always great. I’ve had a pretty rough last year or so dealing with family issues, having a boot, and then an on-the-job injury. I’m currently on “light duty” awaiting clearance to get back with my crew. Light duty sure is motivating for healing, but it’s also brought some self-reflection. If you know me well, you know I’m not great at that.

I wanted to take a few seconds out to talk about a touchy subject. At the risk of sounding dramatic, this career has an effect on us. We see mankind at it’s worst. Day in and day out we see the terrible things that happen to people and the things that people do to each other. There is a culture of bravado in public safety. The “I’m fine” sort of mentality. I think some of that comes from not wanting to appear weak to co-workers, but part of it comes from not wanting to burden others with our problems. For me another part of it is denial. Coming off of a dead baby call or a gory extrication, we want to brush it off and go about our duty, so that’s what we do. There is always a small piece of that situation that sticks with you. Pulling away from the scene we are praying for those families and immediately begin the coping process. Whether it’s talking it out with the crew, or making jokes, we all have our ways. When everything is said and done, most of the time we go about our shift and go home to our families. With that being said, those moments do stay with you. Sometimes those coping mechanisms don’t quite cover the emotions. I realize it’s not very PC to say in the circles I run in, but we’re not invulnerable and we aren’t robots. Combine that with the fact that we have our own complications and hurdles and that can feel overwhelming sometimes. I think many of us feel that way from time to time.

One of the things that I love about my crew is that I can go to them with those things. We can talk through the emotions that come with a call and process what we’re feeling. The same applies for personal issues. Sure we kid around and prank one another, but each one of those men has been a pillar of support for me at various times. I’m eternally grateful for them. I can discuss things with them that I wouldn’t with my wife, and know that they won’t judge me for being human. Along with these men, I have a few brothers in my church that I can speak candidly with.

As I’ve been laid up on light duty, I’ve had a very hard time with identity and worth. I know who I am in Christ, but when I see that roster and I’m not on it, I forget that my identity isn’t in my work. My life still has meaning apart from jumping off that rig and saving the day. These thoughts just don’t spring to mind as I’m in full swing of my personal pity party. Do I grab the word for some affirmation? No, I don’t. More ofthen than not, I find another coping mechanism, and they aren’t all healthy. All of my brothers from the station and from the church have come along side me. Although I haven’t really expressed it to them directly, they have eached helped me along a very difficult time and I’m eternally grateful. I’m also grateful for my wife. She doesn’t know I know, but I’m 100% sure she made some calls.

I guess what I’m getting at is this: we all struggle from time to time. We’re human. Sometimes it can feel like drowning. Take a look at your brothers and sisters objectively. Does something seem off? Are they putting on a mask of “I’m fine?” Something as simple as “hey, do you want to talk?” Can make a world of difference to someone that is really struggling.

If you’re one of those people that’s drowning: You truly are not alone. Pull someone aside. If you can’t, there are many of us internet strangers and brothers in the service that would lend you an ear. Drop me a line if you’re so inclined. Check out The Code Green campaign. Feelings are ok, and sometimes it’s hard to know what to do with them.

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My First Interior Fire (a.k.a. Happy Birthday To Me)

Yesterday was the third shift of my current tour. It was also my 38th birthday. I’m usually pretty quiet about my birthday (being an introvert and all). However, my Captain, and one of the Rescue guys at my station discovered it was my birthday. Rescue Steve and Rescue Frank bought me a Chocolate Tres Leches cake (which was amazing and a very pleasant surprise! (Thanks Guys!))

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My First Tour

I’ve talked with quite a few firefighters about their careers. Aside from “this is the best job in the world,” the one thing they have all said to me is “I wish I would have kept a journal since the start of my career.” I resolved that I would do that starting with my first tour. After graduation I was riding pretty high on emotion and had three blissful days off before my first tour was to begin.

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The Irons

I was reading a document by John Vigiano (Retired FDNY Captain) entitled Forcible Entry Forcible Entry Reference Guide. Chapter 1, Forcible Entry History.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Apparently in the early years of FDNY, there was a bank robbery. The robbers set a fire to cover their tracks. In the aftermath of the fire, there was  tool found that the robbers had used. The tool was about 36″ long, and had a hook on one end and a fork on the other. The tool was dubbed “The Claw Tool”. They figured if it’s good enough to break into banks, it was good enough for the fire service. Many companies copied the tool and it became very popular.

The short-coming of the claw-tool was the fact that because the claw was curved, it make striking the tool a risky proposition.

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The Oral Board Interview

Each department handles hiring a little differently.

The process usually includes some or all of the following:

The Oral board interviews are the first round of interviews and usually after the written test (and sometimes after the CPAT). However, each department has their way of doing things.

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Fire Foto Friday – 6/19/2015

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I have received a contingent offer for Firefighter Recruit from Tucson Fire Department! I am incredibly honored, humbled, and shocked to have made the cut. I was in a pool with some incredible candidates and some great future firefighters (PCC 15-01). I very much look forward to serving this community that I love so much and that has welcomed me with open arms since I landed here.

Thank you all for your unceasing prayers, support, encouragement and cheer-leading. God has carried me a long way. It is my prayer that he will carry me still to my mission. I could not have made it without you or without Him.

Thank you to my wife, and my daughters for their steadfastness. Thank you to my co-workers at HealthTrio, and my boss, Chris for their grace. Thank you to my firefighting role models for their support also.

I’m not going to tag the hundreds of people I need to thank, but you know who you are. Thank you for carrying me. Thank you for praying for me.

I am humbled, honored, excited, and ready to go. TFD is my big audacious dream, and serving Tucson is my goal.

God is good, gracious, and generous. All the time.

‪#‎LoveTucson‬ ‪#‎GloryToGod‬

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